Asperger Syndrome Behavior

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In theory, you can create a neat checklist of Asperger syndrome behavior and compare your child to it, putting a label on the odd behavior you've observed, or provide relief to know that your kid is fine after all. In reality, it's not that easy, of course. Each child is unique; only a professional observing and interacting with the child in controlled setting can make an Asperger diagnosis. Having said that, there are a number of telltale signs that can help a parent make the determination of whether to seek out such a professional, and that's what we'll discuss here.

What is Aspergers Syndrome?

Aspergers is a pervasive developmental disorder (PDD) on the autistism spectrum. It is, however, typically a decidedly milder affliction than those who have classical autism. One notable difference is that there is no speech delay or problems in the cognitive area, which makes sufferers of Aspergers much less of a standout in many situations. There are still some issues that are clearly autistic in nature, however.

Asperger Syndrome Behavior

There is no one symptom, but rather a collection of symptoms that determine whether a person has Aspergers or not. Here are some indications of Asperger syndrome behavior.

  • Missed social cues - A person with Aspergers has problems picking up on the kind of nuances and unspoken communication that neurotypical people incorporate as part of the regular repertoire. For example, a person may exclaim "Oh great! Hail on our picnic!" which leads the person with Aspergers to inquire why he would consider this great. Most Aspergers sufferers learn to recognize some basic peculiarities like this, but most of it passes undetected or misinterpreted.
  • Extreme focus - People with Aspergers typically have the ability and the curse -- take your pick -- to give a subject or a problem undivided attention for long periods of time. For an artistic or mathematically gifted person, for example, this ability to block out all distractions can lay the groundwork for great things. It can also take on an obsessive-compulsive quality, affecting anything from grooming to eating. Extremely in-depth knowledge about a narrow field, such as World War II airplanes or the Savannah ecosystem, is another example of typical Asperger syndrome behavior.
  • Poor self-control - Emotions are far from the ordered world of math or the previously mentioned ecosystem; this illogical nature of emotions makes is hard to grasp and even harder to express for a person with Aspergers. As a result, a child with Aspergers can slip into tantrums for minor disappointments and have seemingly strange overreactions to trivial things.
  • Lack of intimacy - Tying into the difficulty with social cues, a person with Aspergers automatically has a challenge relating to other people. It gets even worse when working up beyond that, since any kind of expression of affection not only requires the kind of back-and-forth they're unable to participate in, but also involves digging deep to put one's innermost feelings into words. A hard feat for anyone; even worse here, where emotions are already a confusing area. Does this mean a person with Aspergers doesn't want to show love for his or her family, make friends or find the kind of adult love most of us strive for? Absolutely not, it's just that road there is infinitely harder than it would be without Aspergers.
  • Motor skills - While not universal, many children with Aspergers take longer to learn skills like riding a bike or zipping up a jacket. They could also be clumsy, or walk a little funny, or otherwise be a tad awkward as if they just 99.9% control of their bodies.

Conclusion

A person with Aspergers is no more or less appreciative of love and companionship than others; they just lack the proper tools to pursue those relationships, perhaps instead giving off an unconscious vibe of indifference and disinterest. If you suspect that your child or someone you know may be an Aspergers sufferer, bear in mind that these behaviors may be indicative but only a professional can make a definite diagnosis.



 


Comments

Hi Angela,

No known cause for Asperger's exists and I have never heard of the condition being triggered by trauma. It would be best to tell your tween's doctor about the changes in behavior. They may be directly connected to the stress from the difficult times your family has been experiencing but it's always a good idea to follow through with a professional, especially when the anxiety and behaviors interfere with daily life.

-- Contributed by: Ella Rain

can a life tragedy/experience bring to light aspergers in a tween? we recently lost 2 grandfathers, my eldest son had a suicide attempt and other serious issues arose. Now my tween as severe anxiety cannot go to school, I look at symptoms and he is almost dead on with high functioning aspergers. Can something like this manifest after an emotional roller coaster hell like we had?

-- Contributed by: Angela Bryant

Hi Kaya,

Yes. High school is difficult! Middle school is troublesome, too. There are many changes taking place, and many kids aren't equipped to understand AS. The fortunate thing is that you can quickly weed out mean-spirited people in the process of developing new friendships.

Keep in mind that you have the ability to teach people about Aspergers in a way that no one else can. It is always better to have one true friend than many shallow acquaintances.

-- Contributed by: Ella Rain
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